GENTLENESS
Meekness is
power under control.
Meekness
is not to be confused with weakness: the meek are not simply submissive because
they lack the resources to be anything else. Meekness is quite compatible with
great strength and ability as humans measure strength,
but whatever strength or weakness the meek person has is accompanied by
humility and a genuine dependence on God. True meekness may be a quality of the
strong, those who could assert themselves but choose not to do so.
Leon Morris
Matthew, Eerdmans, 1992, p. 98.
The man who is
meek is not even sensitive about himself. He is not always watching himself and
his own interests. He is not always on the defensive... To be truly meek means
we no longer protect ourselves, because we see there is nothing worth
defending... The man who is truly meek never pities himself, he is never sorry
for himself. He never talks to himself and says, “You are having a hard time,
how unkind these people are not to understand you.”
Martyn Lloyd-Jones
Studies in the Sermon on the Mount, IVP, 200, p. 69.
The higher
people are in the favor of God, the more tender they
are.
Martin Luther
Leadership, v. 8, n. 2
The meek man
is not a human mouse afflicted with a sense of his own inferiority. Rather he may be in his moral life as bold as
a lion and as strong as Samson; but he has stopped being fooled about himself. He has accepted God’s estimate of his own
life. He knows he is as weak and
helpless as God declared him to be, but paradoxically, he knows at the same
time that he is in the sight of God of more importance than angels. In himself, nothing; in
God, everything. That is his
motto.
A.W. Tozer
Rudeness,
yelling, anger, and swearing are a weak man’s imitation of strength.
Author Unknown
Perhaps no
grace is less prayed for, or less cultivated than gentleness. Indeed it is considered rather as belonging
to natural disposition or external manners, than as a Christian virtue; and
seldom do we reflect that not to be gentle is sin.
Bethune
The Fruit of the Spirit, 1839, p. 100.
Gentleness is
an active trait, describing the manner in which we should treat others. Meekness is a passive trait, describing the
proper Christian response when others mistreat us.
Jerry Bridges
The Practice of Godliness, NavPress, 1996, p.
181. Used by permission of NavPress – www.navpress.com.
All rights reserved.
Both
gentleness and meekness are born of power, not weakness. There is a pseudo-gentleness that is
effeminate, and there is a pseudo-meekness that is cowardly. But a Christian is to be gentle and meek
because those are Godlike virtues… We
should never be afraid, therefore, that the gentleness of the Spirit means
weakness of character. It takes
strength, God’s strength, to be truly gentle.
Jerry Bridges
The Practice of Godliness, NavPress, 1996, p.
181-182. Used by permission of NavPress – www.navpress.com.
All rights reserved. .
Tenderness
will win hearts so hardened that nothing else can move them. Truth spoken in
love goes directly to the heart of the hearer and calls forth a kind response… It
overcomes prejudice and hardness… It melts and wins where the most logical argument,
the most terrible warning, and the severest threatening would produce no more
impression than the falling of dew upon a block of granite.
Wilson T. Hogg
A Hand-Book of Homiletics and Pastoral Theology, Free
Methodist Publishing House, 1919, p. 342-343.
The meek are
those who quietly submit themselves to God, to His Word and to His rod, who
follow His directions, and comply with His designs, and are gentle toward all
men.
Matthew
Henry