SELF-PITY

 

 


 

As Christians we should never feel sorry for ourselves. The moment we do so, we lose our energy, we lose the will to fight and the will to live, and are paralyzed.

 

Martyn Lloyd-Jones

 


 

Boasting is the voice of pride in the heart of the strong. Self-pity is the voice of pride in the heart of the weak.

 

John Piper

 


 

Self-pity is a powerful, negative attitude that gives rise to many, many excuses for sin. People fall into Satan’s trap of giving themselves “permission” to sin to compensate for the difficulties and trials they’ve had to bear. Self-pity is a direct rejection of God’s control. It is saying, “I don’t like what you’ve done in my life, and I absolutely will not be content! I can’t change it, so I’ll just be angry and miserable.”

 

John A. Younts

Everyday Talk, Talking Freely and Naturally about God with Your Children, Shepherd Press, 2004, p. 140, Used by Permission.

 


 

Self pity is the response of pride to suffering.

 

Author Unknown

 


 

Self pity is the voice of pride in the heart of the weak.

 

Author Unknown