TITUS
2
Paul
presented this “older woman (teaching) younger woman” model as one of the
greatest teaching opportunities mature Christian women can have in the
church. They care share wisdom out of
their years of experience, something even mature men have no capacity to
do. Furthermore, these mature women can
do what men should not do in a personal setting – to communicate with women
regarding very intimate matters. It’s obvious Timothy faced this challenge in Ephesus when
Paul exhorted him – particularly as a young sin man – to “treat…older women as
mothers, and younger woman as sisters, with absolute purity” (1 Ti. 5:1-2).
Elders and Leaders, Moody, 2003, p. 118.
A Titus 2
woman is an older, mature Christian woman who teaches and encourages the
younger women. Her ministry is based on
the Scripture passage in Titus 2:3-5. It
seemed to me that every Christian woman regardless of age or marital status
should aspire to become a Titus 2 Woman.
It also seemed to me that most churches today are woefully lacking in
the training of these ladies. They may
have organized woman’s functions, but there seems to be few if any older women
who are discipling the younger women biblically as
required in Titus 2:3-5.
Martha Peace
Becoming a Titus 2 Woman, Focus Publishing,
1997, Introduction.
Members of the older generation need to take it upon
themselves to pursue younger Christians to mentor and disciple them in the
faith. Let’s be honest. They might not be beating down the door to sit at your
feet. They might not look to you with adoring eyes, amazed by your knowledge.
You might not be a “cool” old person. Don’t let that stop you. If you’re
motivated by the Gospel, it shouldn’t stop you. Remember, it’s not about you.
It’s about the Savior. It’s about what He has done. Whether or not you have the
added fuel of feeling wanted, needed, and in demand, you can go out and seek to
serve.
Joshua
Harris
Tabletalk, April
2008, p. 71, Used by Permission.
Older women
should teach younger women the skills and disciplines needed to have a
successful home and marriage. Experienced wives and mothers will find their
greatest avenue of ministry in teaching younger wives what they need to know to
be effective wives, mothers, and homemakers.
John MacArthur
The
Fulfilled Family, Copyright: John MacArthur, 2005, p. 42.
Older women
are to cultivate virtue, yet not as an end in itself, but for the purpose of
training young women. Nevertheless, it is impossible to train others in
qualities oneself does not possess. There is a great need in the contemporary
church for older women who are godly and who obey the biblical command to train
young women in the faith. Many younger women long for more mature women to take
them under their wings and to teach them how to live the Christian life,
especially since many of them lack such godly models in their own family or
live at a great distance from their own family. Notably, such training –
usually involving private rather than public instruction – is to focus squarely
on the domestic sphere.
Andreas Kostenberger
God,
Marriage and Family, Crossway, 2004, p. 121.